In any society or culture there are always some people who are Players and some people who are pretenders. The key is to get the maturity to move from the pretender to the player in life. Games like football, basketball, and other games are just that, they are games. But life is a different story, it is the real thing and our spirit and soul are on the line with a WINNER TAKE ALL price that goes to the winner. I sure want to make sure that I am on the winning side and that I am a PLAYER and not a PRETENDER when it come to my life and my destiny. I just have to believe that you feel the same way I do about your life. I believe that everyone of us wants to be a winner, but many times we just don’t know how to do it or don’t know what to do. It is so important to learn to be a giver instead of a taker. As we learn to give and be a servant instead of selfish, we move from a PRETENDER TO PLAYER. A lot of things change at this point of your life. You will have more PEACE, more HAPPINESS, more VITALITY in your everyday walk. And more important than all of these things is you will be content with yourself. THAT’S WORTH IT ALL. Be a servant and go out and serve someone today, do it with the attitude that I want to serve this person, not that you have too, I just want to do it because it is the right thing to do. FIND A NEED AND FILL, FIND A LIFE AND ENCOURAGE IT. You will love yourself if you do.